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Unit 1 · Topic 03 · Digital Safety and Citizenship

Risks of Connecting with people online and How to Stay Safe

Hook

In Anaya's cricket game, a player called SixerKing sent her a message. "Nice bowling! Want 500 free coins?"

Anaya had twelve coins. Five hundred sounded excellent.

The Story

SixerKing was chatty. He said he was nine. He said he was in Class 4. He said his school was near a big temple, same as hers, probably.

Anaya told Kabir at lunch. "He's basically us," she said.

"How do you know?" said Kabir.

"He said so."

Kabir chewed his roti and thought about that.

By Thursday SixerKing had a plan. To send the coins, he needed her login and password — just for two minutes, he said, and then he would hand it straight back. He typed a laughing face. He typed "trust me na".

Anaya typed her password.

On Friday her account had no coins at all. Not five hundred. Not even the twelve she started with. Her player name had been changed to POTATO. SixerKing was gone, and his messages had vanished with him.

Anaya was not hurt. She was furious, and a bit embarrassed.

Ms. Rao helped her report the account and reset her password. Then she asked the useful question.

"Which of the things SixerKing told you did you actually check?"

Anaya stopped. She had checked nothing. She had believed typing.

"Online, you can only see what someone types," said Ms. Rao. "Anyone can type nine."

Kabir showed her the two buttons on every player's profile: Block and Report. They used both.

Pixel groaned once, long and low, like a grandfather who had seen all this before.

Anaya rebuilt her coins the slow way, by playing. It took eleven days. Her player name is still POTATO. She says she has grown fond of it.

The chat between SixerKing and Anaya, with the password request marked as the mistake, and the result: twelve coins down to zero and the name changed to POTATO The chat, Monday to Thursday SixerKing: "Want 500 free coins?" SixerKing: "I'm 9. Class 4. School near the temple." typed, not checked SixerKing: "Send your password, 2 minutes only!" THE MISTAKE Anaya: types her password Friday morning — the account Before: 12 coins Name: Anaya After: 0 coins Name: POTATO What fixed it: Block, Report, new password
Anaya's real chat, and what it cost her by Friday.

So What Just Happened?

Meeting people online is normal. The risk is not that everyone is bad — most people are fine. The risk is that you cannot check anything. Online you see typed words and a chosen picture. Age, name, class, city: all of it is typed, and typing is free.

So an online friend is someone whose claims nobody has confirmed. They stay a stranger until a trusted adult in your real life can vouch for them.

Four moves keep you safe: never share private information, never agree to meet alone, use Block and Report, and tell a trusted adult early. Telling early is not being a baby. It is how the mess stays small.

A profile card showing four claims that were all typed, beside a question-mark panel showing that none of them could be checked WHAT I CAN SEE Name typed: "SixerKing" Age typed: "9" Class typed: "4" Picture: a boy with a bat Every line of it was TYPED. WHAT I CAN CHECK ? Real age: unknown Real name and place: unknown Nothing was checked.
An online friend is a stranger whose claims nobody has confirmed.

Remember This

  • Online you see typed words, not proof. Anyone can type "I am nine".
  • An online friend stays a stranger until a trusted adult can vouch for them.
  • Nobody real ever needs your password. Not for coins, not for prizes.
  • Block stops them reaching you. Report tells the app about them. Use both.
  • Tell a trusted adult early — that is how a mess stays small.
The four safe moves for playing online: share nothing private, never meet alone, block and report, and tell a trusted adult early CHEAT CARD — the four safe moves 1. Share nothing private — ever no password, no address 2. Never meet alone a parent decides, not me 3. Block + Report both buttons on the player's profile 4. Tell a trusted adult early small mess, easy fix Two warning signs to watch for: "send it fast, just 2 minutes" (a hurry) and "don't tell anyone" (a secret).
The four moves, and the two warning signs that mean use them now.

Try It Yourself

Open a game or app you already use and find two buttons: Block and Report.

They usually sit on a player's profile, or beside a message. Do not press them — just find them.

Write down where each one lives, then show a grown-up.

Knowing where they are beats hunting for them in a hurry.

Word Bank

Online friend
Someone you only know through a screen; their claims are unchecked.
Trusted adult
A grown-up you know in real life who helps you, like a parent or teacher.
Block
A button that stops a person from messaging or finding you again.
Report
A button that tells the app's own team that someone is behaving badly.
Account
Your own space in an app, opened by your login and password.

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